Sharing the load

PROBLEM: Mom cribbing, complaining, and feeling overwhelmed with all the work at home.


SOLUTION(by a teenager): Let us bring understanding and share responsibilities

WHAT & HOW: We will decide in the meeting

WHEN: Sunday 8 pm

ACTION:

 We all listed down the chores to be done on a daily basis. Work were put in 4 groups. Everyone chose the work they want to do. There were agreeing, disagreeing, argument, commitment etc during this discussion.   

OUTCOME:  

Mom relaxed

Chores divided

Some reminders had to be given

All are following as they commited

Happy, peaceful and fight free zone

NEXT MEET: after a week.


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